Although the last divorce was very challenging indeed, I knew I could not get out of this on my own. All I knew was either I was going to be carried by six or judged by twelve. After making the most difficult decision of filing for divorce, it was what was best for my health, mental health, spiritually and emotionally. I got into therapy and began the work on rebuilding my confidence and rediscovering me! Three years later, I have put in the work and can tell you how losing the “weight” helped me loose the weight, rediscover my confidence and how to regain my independence.